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Second Weddings

need your input ladies!

so my aunt is 40-something and having her second wedding in about a month...we are trying to think of something to do for her beforehand but she doesn't want a shower or anything like that, since it will be a pretty low-key wedding with family...we are at our wits end trying to find ideas for something special to do for her. so i thought i'd come to this board in hopes that you could help.

TIA!!!


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Re: need your input ladies!

  • melissamc2melissamc2 member
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    edited December 2011
    If I were her, I'd love it if the women closest to me scheduled a spa day with facials, a manicure, a pedicure, and anything else useful yet indulgent.  Follow it up with a nice lunch and that sounds low-key yet "bride to be" like to me!

    Of course a lot depends on what she LIKES, because some women would be really uncomfortable with that, but I'd love it!
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  • edited December 2011
    I am 40 something and I would love a day like that.  It would make me feel like a bride.  Good Luck
  • edited December 2011

    I think the spa day n lunch is perfect!

  • KilleenBrideKilleenBride member
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    edited December 2011
    third on the spa day and lunch, I would absolutely love that personally
  • edited December 2011

    Spa day and dinner is what we were thinking of doing for the B-party, but staying overnight downtown.  I think it is a wonderful idea!  If it isn't something she would be into, you could go to a pottery place and paint some stuff.

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  • edited December 2011

    I agree a spa day and lunch would be perfect and very fitting.  Great idea :)

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  • Sue-n-KevinSue-n-Kevin member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree with everyone else! Spa day!

    Ask her though, because of timing. She might want this a day or two before the wedding, with a mani & pedi, so she feels super-special. Another alternative might be to see if there is someone to do her hair & makeup the day of her wedding, if she wants that. We all want to feel beautiful on our special day, even if it is "low key".

    You are very thoughtful BTW.
  • edited December 2011
    thanks everybody! we'll probably be looking into doing a spa day :)

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  • edited December 2011
    My uncle recently got remarried and my grandma, mom, me and my aunts and cousins all took my new aunt and her kids to the Olive Garden for dinner and just gave her a nice gift basket full of all kinds of goodies. She loved it.
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  • edited December 2011
    Also if you can't afford a full spa day looking into haveing a BeautiControl party, they come to your house and do like a mini spa thing and then you could have a potluck lunch.
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