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Picking WP

HI All!
So i know that your suppose to "wait" like 9 months before the wedding to ask friends and/or family to be in your WP, my FI has already asked and I have only asked one and I really wanna ask ppl, is it too early to ask, we don't have an exact date planned, we know its going to be April 2014 and I know who I want to ask, I do already have my MOH ( bff for the last 20 years) I have two friends I wanna ask, and the fourth kinda iffy on...I have a friend, but she just had a baby so not sure if shes going to say yes, plus I don't want her to feel like she has to because I was her bridesmaid when she got married back in 2010, though I would love for her to be standing next to me we haven't been as close lately and my FI thinks that maybe the wedding might bring us closer again, anywho I'm getting off trail.

thoughts?
heatherCool

Re: Picking WP

  • I think if you're feeling really good about the girls you want to pick and you're 100% sure, then go for it!  If you are a little on the fence for any reason, I would hold off a couple months bc it wouldn't hurt to wait. You still have plenty of time before you need to worry about their dresses and you can enlist all of your close friends for any help until you lock down the party! But go with your gut - that's always my advice. 

    I asked my wedding party about 11months in advance so I was a little early too 
  •  Ok good, I feel better now. there are two that I know will say yes, and the fourth I'll wait a little while. thanks for the advance.
  • I'm not sure i have told some of my girls but nothing really official so I not sure .. I think like when I hit the year mark I will official let the girls know even though they know already

    Daisypath - (PNE7)
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