I became engaged almost a month ago. We are on a very tight budget (entirely self paid) and really hoping to have the wedding this fall (looking at October 22nd). I know I technically have enough time, but I want to find a venue ASAP so that I can deal with everything else. I feel like things will start to fall into place after I know where we are having the ceremony and reception. I was looking into renting a vacation property, so we could do our own food and decorations and have everything in one spot.. with the ceremony on the beach (if we found a beach house) or in the yard if we found a house with enough space. However, it seems everything is either way too big or way too small or too close to other houses. Then, just when I think Ive found the perfect spot, I email the owner only to find that they dont allow weddings on their property. I also looked into the clearwater rec center and the st pete rec center... but after all is said and done I think they will still be too expensive, especially considering we'd need to rent a hotel room nearby. Do any of you have other ideas? I know I could just have it at a park, but Id rather not have my reception at the park... and so then Id still be looking for a reception hall that would allow late hours and for us to bring our own alcohol. I feel like I've been searching non stop for the last month. Any ideas would be awesome. We're looking no further than an hour drive from Tampa. Clearwater/St Pete/Reddington are all fine. There will be no more than 50 guests at the ceremony. Thanks for reading my "rant" and for your help, in advance.