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& i had a bad day

amongthelilies25amongthelilies25 member
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ooohhh... goodness. 

yesterday i fought with FI all day over stupid little things. i was mad at myself for fighting so much. 

i slept terrible last night, and i woke up super late to work this morning. I lost one of my contacts while trying to rush to get ready...and now i am at work - hair all crazy, zero makeup, and in glasses that i have had since high school. to top it all off... the owners of the hotel will be here today (please Jesus let them come after i am off work)! 

i hate that i fought soo much with FI. ( he went out of town for 2 days and i didn't even say bye i was fighting so much). I feel like a terrible future wife. 

uh... please pray for me. thanks ladies.
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  • StacyJennigesStacyJenniges
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    edited December 2011
    Me and my FI go through periods where it seems like we fight about the stupid little things.  It's the stress and anxiety of the wedding coming up.  Sometimes I think we unconsiously want to fight to get out all the stress and anxiety.  just call your FI up and let him know how much you love him.

    I'll pray that things get better and that you are able to release the stress and anxiety through different means.

    Edit:  I didn't finish my sentance above!  hahah. 
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  • amongthelilies25amongthelilies25 member
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    edited December 2011
    thanks soo much. FI and i have made up and he just called me at work and said that he just wants to come home. i apologized to him and everything is better. 

    i just need to release my stress in a different way. 


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  • mrandmrsbristmrandmrsbrist member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry, girl! I'm glad you guys talked and you got to apologize, though.

    As for stress relief, I like to write down whatever is bugging me...and then tear the piece of paper into a million tiny pieces. I also like to go for long walks. I get pretty fired up about walking when I'm stressed out and angry.
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  • amongthelilies25amongthelilies25 member
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    oohh that is some really good advice. thanks!!! 
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  • FaithCaitlinFaithCaitlin member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry you're having a rough day! I'm praying it gets easier. I'm glad you and FI made up. It stinks to fight- especially when it's over something silly. :( don't worry though- it happens to the best of us! Virtual hugs coming your way!

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  • ravenrayravenray member
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    I am sorry you fought.  I fight with my BF when I am stressed too.  When I realize I am stress I just say Hey baby I am really stressed can I tell you about it?  After we talk I always feel better and I don't take my stress out on him.
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  • amongthelilies25amongthelilies25 member
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    edited December 2011
    ravenray - ya... i need to be better at articulating my stress. we are learning though. thanks for the advice

    faith - hugs back! 

    i am feeling better... i am clinging to the verse psalm 118:24 where it says that this is the Lord has made.. i will rejoice and be glad in it. 

    i will not let the devil win. 
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  • kellya01kellya01
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    edited December 2011
    Praying for you, lilies!  I don't sleep well when I get in arguments either.  I also don't sleep well when I'm stressed.  Ihaven't gotten a good night's sleep since I took this new job on March 7th ... yeah, I feel it majorly right now!!

    Anyway... just saw your post and want you to know that I'm including you on my prayer break right now! :-)
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  • amongthelilies25amongthelilies25 member
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    edited December 2011
    thanks kelly  - i appreciate it! 
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  • sessionsweddingsessionswedding member
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    Prayers and hugs!  I hope you start feeling better, and I'm glad to hear that you and your FI have made up.
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  • Purple&7Purple&7 member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry to hear about your day. I hope everything gets better! I'm glad you and FI were able to work things out. FI and I go through these periods too. So trust me you're not alone. Praying that things get better.
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  • LittleBigOLittleBigO
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    edited December 2011

    You had a bad morning - it's looking up now right?  I'm sorry your morning was awful, my afternoon yesterday was bad.  :(  DH and I have been fighting a lot since we're 6 hours away, over silly things that normally wouldn't matter.  I was upset yesterday and called him, he was short because he was losing service.  I got upset even more because he didn't comfort me.  After I calmed down, he called me back and I talked to him about him being short and he said he didn't mean it like that at all, and that if he were with me he'd just hug me and hold me and let me cry.  :)  The important thing is that you always work it out - and that tomorrow brings a new day!!  I love this quote:

    Tomorrow is the most important thing in life. Comes into us at midnight very clean. It's perfect when it arrives and it puts itself in our hands. It hopes we've learned something from yesterday.
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    I learned not to be mad at DH over the phone when he can't reach through and hold me like I really want.  :P 

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  • amongthelilies25amongthelilies25 member
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    edited December 2011
    such good advice, beth! thanks!!!! 
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  • iamjoesgurliamjoesgurl member
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    Hope your day has turned out better than it started!  Just talk to your FI about how you felt after fighting - let him know you're sorry (if you haven't already done that).  
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  • AshNoel8AshNoel8
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    edited December 2011
    Sorry girl! Glad you guys made up. I know how that can be- it's tough. 
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