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Possible Bridesmaid MIA??

Ok so I am new to this post thing and this is my first one but I really need so input.

I have a bridesmaid who is a long time friend and I love her like a sister but she is not always the most dependable. My question is what would you do if you had a bridesmaid bail out last min.? She has her dress so we're good on that but my gut tells me she is going to call me and say I can't make it. I had a talk with her to make sure she was going to be able to make it and everything was affordable because I don't want to hurt anyone financially. Just needed some opinions on what to do. Thanks!

Re: Possible Bridesmaid MIA??

  • well you can't get married.  If your sides are uneven that might look weird.
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  • One of my BMs' sister is due 3 days after our wedding.  It's likely that she'll have a c-section about two weeks before but if the BM needs to be with her sister instead of at the wedding, I'll understand & we'll go right on. 

    Now, if it were her just flaking out, I'd be irritated, but we'd still go right on.
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