So my fiance and I have been trying to decide on the whole "and guest" thing. We know that we cannot let every person bring a guest. So we decided that obvisously if they are married, engaged, dating a LONG time, or if we are actually friends with the both of them. We also said that we will include our bridal party. Well, the sticky situation is..my fiance's best friend (the best man), and my best friend (the maid of honor) recently broke up. Now my maid of honor is dating someone new, that I have NEVER met. I don't want to make an akward situation for anyone so I was thinking about not having "and guest" included on her invite.
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I know that she would bring her new bf if I did and purposely try to make her ex jealous. We already talked to the best man about him possibly not bringing a guest either and he was totally cool with it! He said he wouln't have anyway. I'm just torn because I do not want to make my best friend mad and think it's not fair to her. I mean, am I wrong for not wanting her new boyfriend at my wedding? I don't even know him and since he came into the picture me and her have been having some problems. HELP! How do I break it to her!?