My FI had told his (best) friend- who we will call Joe- who he possibly will ask to be best man, that he planned on proposing, right after he had bought the ring. Later on, my FH told me his best friend, along with another "friend" well call Mike (who just graduated from law school...my FI isn't close with Mike) said that he should get a prenup. My FI is finishing up dental school- to which I supported him through (emotionally and financially). We never discussed prenups before- and I am not against them- though I was pretty insulted, as was my FI, especially since this isn't a friend suggesting it- it is an attorney who we aren't close with. My FI laughed it off and we haven't discussed it since. He doesn't want a prenup- since he thinks its condoning divorce. He said he sees no reason for him to protect his money- since he feels I have earned part of that income through my support. I told him that was sweet- and I would agree to a prenup if he really wanted one. Anyway..
In addition to this whole prenup thing, "Joe" said he didn't think that my FI and I should get married because we were rushing (we have been together 2 years, and living together for a year- and plan on getting married in 2014.. for a total of 5 years of being together!!!). However, Joe said if he did plan on proposing- to wait until he was around so he can celebrate.... WTF?! How do I tell my FI that "Joe" needs a girlfriend and a life- and other plans the night of the wedding! (Kind of kidding on that last part.) Help me with some "playing nice" ladies!!