So today my grandma is having surgery so I am upset and I am spending a ton of time at the hospital. So I am on edge and it's my birthday today on top of it. Yesterday he was home all day and the house is a wreck and the least he can do is pick up a little so I thought I said it nicely. So he got in a mood and stayed in the bedroom, wrote a nasty comment on Facebook and went to bed. Today I am at the hospital since 6:30 in the morning and he never called to see how I am or how my grandmother is doing or happy birthday. So frustrated with him right now grr.