Frisky Friday

junebug19 · March 2012

Hello! TGIFF! This was a long week!
So, Do you use toys and/or products in the bedroom? If so, what do you use?

junebug19 · March 2012

Never really used toys, went to a party once and bought some lotions that we tried. I found it a little messy- I may be up to trying something again though. Any recommendations?

BMcLeodTeam · March 2012

We don't all the time, but sometimes its fun... we're more a handcuffs and blindfolds couple than anything

lol

mamameech · March 2012

I have some one on one time with Big Blue on a daily basis LOL
FI gets a little jealous of our relationship but but I do include FI from time to time haha

agladhill · March 2012

I need an "other" option. LOL! I have entire drawer full of toys, that I have used alone or with a partner, but I haven't been able to get my FI to try any of it yet. I'm still working on that one. I may just have to just get something out and use in front of him to get him warmed up to them.

He says he fantasized about using toys, but he's never had the balls to do it. LOL!

agladhill · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:932fd094-9fa0-49bc-98c6-2fec1566fd34">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]I have some one on one time with Big Blue on a daily basis LOL FI gets a little jealous of our relationship but but I do include FI from time to time haha
Posted by mamameech[/QUOTE]

LOL! I used to have daily time with B.O.B (battery operated boyfriend), but FI is ready anytime I am, so I haven't needed BOB much anymore, fortunately.

volleygurl0306 · March 2012

We don't all the time but we do use lube somewhat regularly. Normal lube when we are going at it for a particularly long time to keep from soreness and flavored lube to spice up when I go down on FI (Adam and Eve sells a flavor multipack of 6 flavors I really like because it never gets sticky and tastes good haha). FI actually brought my vibrator to bed first to have me use while in the act. It's just easier for me to get there from external stimulation than internal (sorry if TMI but it is something I highly recommmend!!!). We also have handcuffs, a paddle, and a blindfold when we are getting really crazy but we don't use them often. I also have a whole drawer full of "outfits" that get used a few times a month. Also, sometimes we'll watch dvds together that are of the adult nature. It's more foreplay and research because we'll try out the stuff we see haha. Even though we don't use them all the time, we love to go into sex shops and check out new stuff!

volleygurl0306 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:54b168de-4a35-437f-b3bc-bca01baefbcf">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]I need an "other" option. LOL! I have entire drawer full of toys, that I have used alone or with a partner, but I haven't been able to get my FI to try any of it yet. I'm still working on that one. I may just have to just get something out and use in front of him to get him warmed up to them. He says he fantasized about using toys, but he's never had the balls to do it. LOL!
Posted by agladhill[/QUOTE]

I definitely think you should just go for it! I bet he's probably just a little intimidated that you have used them before and afraid he'll do it wrong (not sure you can do it wrong post high school haha). He is clearly turned on by it though so I think if you went for it he'd go crazy because not only are you doing something new that he's wanted to try but you had the confidence to make the initiative which is sexy. Just afterwards once you both are a little removed from it, double check that it was okay for him. You guys should be open enough to say what works and doesnt.

mamameech · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:0e6bc966-d601-44aa-b6af-1c4b14dd9cec">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Frisky Friday : LOL! I used to have daily time with B.O.B (battery operated boyfriend), but FI is ready anytime I am, so I haven't needed BOB much anymore, fortunately.
Posted by agladhill[/QUOTE]

I wish! FI is always tired.. it's like pulling teeth to get any action. I told him that he has no right to be jealous of Big Blue because I'd rather have him anytime - and I have needs (often lol).

jezpez717 · March 2012

I love the ky Yours and Mine its amazing..also trojan and durex both have these little rings with "massager" on the end, those are also AWESOME especially when on top because you can control it...we have some tie up and game stuff we havent really used... its sad to say but I do miss my rabit every once and a while

maybe one day I will get up the guts to buy another one and just figure out a way to have him be involved..

romamor4 · March 2012

We tried using toys but just didn't like it. We bought a few that I wish we hadn't spent the money on now. They were really nice and the idea was great, but they just didn't work out.

BMcLeodTeam · March 2012

I did a lot more with partners in the past, but I was a lot crazier in the past than now because FI isn't as experienced in that stuff... although he does try new things regularily

jacquiroxx · March 2012

My mum sells sex toys, and while some people might think it's weird to buy that stuff from your mother, it's totally not awkward. We're more friends than mother/daughter.

That being said, I have some really great toys. I do enjoy them one-on-one from time to time, but Fi loves to play too. I'm into "harder" stuff, so we have a swing and under-the-bed bondage system on top of all our little toys. If you haven't tried it, I highly recommend the WeVibe. Fabuloso.

That's right, I haven't participated in these Frisky Friday threads so far. I probably should have started with "Hello, my name is Jacqui... and I'm a freak."

BMcLeodTeam · March 2012

That makes two of us if you're a freak Jacqui because all the bondage fun is totally my cup of tea too lol

agladhill · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:83d52411-7535-4f09-bc8d-0ad1ca8349ae">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]My mum sells sex toys, and while some people might think it's weird to buy that stuff from your mother, it's totally not awkward. We're more friends than mother/daughter. That being said, I have some really great toys. I do enjoy them one-on-one from time to time, but Fi loves to play too. I'm into "harder" stuff, so we have a swing and under-the-bed bondage system on top of all our little toys. If you haven't tried it, I highly recommend the WeVibe. Fabuloso. That's right, I haven't participated in these Frisky Friday threads so far. I probably should have started with "Hello, my name is Jacqui... and I'm a freak."
Posted by jacquiroxx[/QUOTE]

I was just talking to FI about a swing last night! LOL!

Trins · March 2012

Hahahah I love that other people name their vibrators as well! I have 2, Bob and Frank, hahahha no idea how those names came about but they did, and they stuck!

volleygurl0306 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:17421682-bc98-4a2b-9894-140dea94fcfc">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Frisky Friday : I was just talking to FI about a swing last night! LOL!
Posted by agladhill[/QUOTE]

FI and I talk about a swing ALL the time. Biggest problem is we don't own a house yet (right now living with mom and dad howw awwwkard haha and before that we were renting). Most people when they buy a house talk about th ecolor of rooms and furniture they'll buy. We talk about the swing LOL.

meagandal · March 2012

I want a swing too! We have the love wedge thing and it is handy for sure but I am all for tryign the swing!

I have had a LOT of toys for solo and use with other partners, thouhg FI & I's current collection is smaller but we have lots of lotions and potions and the basic goodies. I wouldn't use anything (even alone) that I had used in a previous relationship

volleygurl0306 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:cdce4096-9741-4c5b-9608-006a0ec43ec8">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]I want a swing too! We have the love wedge thing and it is handy for sure but I am all for tryign the swing! I have had a LOT of toys for solo and use with other partners, thouhg FI & I's current collection is smaller but we have lots of lotions and potions and the basic goodies. I wouldn't use anything (even alone) that I had used in a previous relationship
Posted by meagandal[/QUOTE]

Haha this reminds me of a convo FI and I had once about if we broke up would we have to throw everything out (minus the 1 vibrator I had before we dated) since everything we had we bought together. We didn't know the rules since neither of us had used this stuff in previous relationships. We knew the only non-awkward thing to do was throw them out but at the same time we've spent hundreds on this stuff in the years we've been together. Not a legit concern since obviously we are getting married but just a nut we were trying to crack

romamor4 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:83d52411-7535-4f09-bc8d-0ad1ca8349ae">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]My mum sells sex toys, and while some people might think it's weird to buy that stuff from your mother, it's totally not awkward. We're more friends than mother/daughter. That being said, I have some really great toys. I do enjoy them one-on-one from time to time, but Fi loves to play too. I'm into "harder" stuff, so we have a swing and under-the-bed bondage system on top of all our little toys. If you haven't tried it, I highly recommend the WeVibe. Fabuloso. That's right, I haven't participated in these Frisky Friday threads so far. I probably should have started with "Hello, my name is Jacqui... and I'm a freak."
Posted by jacquiroxx[/QUOTE]

<div>We tried the WeVibe!! We had so much hope for it! In fact that's one of those toys I wish we hadn't spent the money on. We thought it would help with stimulation since my point of stimulation is really high (sorry if TMI!!) but it just didn't work for us because FI is really big. I mean, THICK. He felt uncomfortable with it because it made it hard for him to move since he is so big. I'll sometimes use it myself, but otherwise it just didn't work for us. </div>

MrsBassPlaya · March 2012

I'm totally not a toy person. In the back of my head I get nervous that I'd have to rely on them if I got too used to them. It may be irrational, but that's my brain. I figure I've got lots of years of sex, so when the regular stuff starts getting boring, then I might start trying to add something here or there to spice it up. Right now I've got all the spice I need, for the most part. Plus, I'm suuuuuper sensitive down there so anything foreign really bothers me. I can barely stand lube at all and the times I've used even "ribbed for her pleasure" condoms have felt like sand paper on my lady parts. So that deters me from wanting to try new things down there.

I'd say that we get our thrill more with "places where you could get caught" than bringing stuff into the bedroom.

morenachica110 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:83d52411-7535-4f09-bc8d-0ad1ca8349ae">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]My mum sells sex toys, and while some people might think it's weird to buy that stuff from your mother, it's totally not awkward. We're more friends than mother/daughter. That being said, I have some really great toys. I do enjoy them one-on-one from time to time, but Fi loves to play too. I'm into "harder" stuff, so we have a swing and under-the-bed bondage system on top of all our little toys. If you haven't tried it, I highly recommend the WeVibe. Fabuloso. That's right, I haven't participated in these Frisky Friday threads so far. I probably should have started with "Hello, my name is Jacqui... and I'm a freak."
Posted by jacquiroxx[/QUOTE]

<div>Sooo... explain this WeVibe because it seems like something I may have fun with... lol</div><div>
</div><div>I've had my share of solo toys, but FI is one of those guys who thinks that you shouldn't need one if the man is... well off. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-undecided.gif" border="0" alt="Undecided" title="Undecided" /> Silly man. BUT he definitely likes (as do I) other things. I have something called Little Blue. It's a compact vibe. I definitely need outer stimulation (TMI!) so that really gets me riled up quickly. I told him if he ever needed to take the "car pool" lane for foreplay to whip that out. Seriously, about half a minute and I'm raring to go. We also do the flavored lubes and have some handuffs and a blindfold but they hardly get used. I have a few outfits but I've gained weight and they don't fit or look horrible. Ugh...</div>

jacquiroxx · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:d07016ff-2473-4b3c-b8ff-8ded64bc2b81">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Frisky Friday : We tried the WeVibe!! We had so much hope for it! In fact that's one of those toys I wish we hadn't spent the money on. We thought it would help with stimulation since my point of stimulation is really high (sorry if TMI!!) but it just didn't work for us because FI is really big. I mean, THICK. He felt uncomfortable with it because it made it hard for him to move since he is so big. I'll sometimes use it myself, but otherwise it just didn't work for us.
Posted by romamor4[/QUOTE]

Oh man that's the reason I love it hahaha. I like to feel "full"- I want it to hurt :p Hahahha.. that might be TMI. Or I'll use it up front while he gives it to me in the back. Okay that's DEFINITELY TMI hahaha... (maybe Frisky Friday should be posted on FB instead of the boards hahaha)

Here's a <a href="http://www.adameve.com/adult-sex-toys/vibrators/g-spot-vibrators/sp-we-vibe-ii-15184.aspx" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">link to WeVibe</a> (clicky). If you wanna order, let me know and I could probably get you a discount through my mum :p

Also, the swing is probably one of my favorite investments. I got it "for him" (aka- me) for Christmas one year. We use it in our rental- we put the hook under the smoke detector. So when you take the smoke detector cover off, there's a hook inside. That way, we can take it down when we have company so they don't see it... even though any company that's seeing our bedroom knows we're freaks anyway.

Glad I'm not the only freak, Britt! Let the freak flag fly :P

romamor4 · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:151d13a2-cc4e-4dda-838b-81255f0246b6">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Frisky Friday : Oh man that's the reason I love it hahaha. I like to feel "full"- I want it to hurt :p Hahahha.. that might be TMI. Or I'll use it up front while he gives it to me in the back. Okay that's DEFINITELY TMI hahaha... (maybe Frisky Friday should be posted on FB instead of the boards hahaha) Here's a link to WeVibe (clicky). If you wanna order, let me know and I could probably get you a discount through my mum :p Also, the swing is probably one of my favorite investments. I got it "for him" (aka- me) for Christmas one year. We use it in our rental- we put the hook under the smoke detector. So when you take the smoke detector cover off, there's a hook inside. That way, we can take it down when we have company so they don't see it... even though any company that's seeing our bedroom knows we're freaks anyway. Glad I'm not the only freak, Britt! Let the freak flag fly :P
Posted by jacquiroxx[/QUOTE]

LOL yes, I actually did start using it up front While he was behind me once we tried it inside. And that helped me out quite nicely!! Lol

agladhill · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:02247dff-cebf-459b-9ff8-7c8ce2e25c44">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE]In Response to Re: Frisky Friday : FI and I talk about a swing ALL the time. Biggest problem is we don't own a house yet (right now living with mom and dad howw awwwkard haha and before that we were renting). Most people when they buy a house talk about th ecolor of rooms and furniture they'll buy. We talk about the swing LOL.
Posted by volleygurl0306[/QUOTE]

I know it's not frisky friday anymore, but I wanted to let you know. Slumber Parties makes a version that just goes over the door frame. No hooks or screws necessary. I may get that at my next party, now that I know my FI is open to that. :)

BMcLeodTeam · March 2012

In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_september-2012-weddings_frisky-friday-2?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:a464c18c-2e4d-469b-8eae-3865079cb9cfDiscussion:2afb3311-2f8e-44da-b614-d7a38c9a4951Post:151d13a2-cc4e-4dda-838b-81255f0246b6">Re: Frisky Friday</a>:
[QUOTE] Glad I'm not the only freak, Britt! Let the freak flag fly :P
Posted by jacquiroxx[/QUOTE]

Ya baby! lol

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