So FI is very close with his grandmother. She wants to throw us a jack and jill shower. That's fine with me except that my bridesmaids are going to have a bridal shower also. So when FI grandmother asked for addresses I only sent her addresses for my aunt/uncles/cousins. I am not giving her addresses for our friends etc, because they will be invited to my bridal shower and I think that asking people to attend two showers is not right. When I gave her the addresses today she FLIPPED out! She started telling me that this wedding isn't all about me and that FI should be included. I agree that FI should be included but I am not insulting people and inviting them to two showers and asking for money and gifts! Am I being wrong??? I am so upset!! What should I do??
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