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What kind of fiance is he?

kwagner1211kwagner1211 member
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What kind of fiance is your man? I'm just curious if they are all alike or mine is unique! He as very hands off until yesterday. We went to another wedding yesterday and he realized that ours is only 4 weeks away so he started saying "we need to get rings", "we need to pick the menu", etc. and I'm saying I know! I already told you all that! At least he's helping out now!
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  • dazed2confuseddazed2confused
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    edited December 2011
    My fiancee has a few things that are really important to him, so he is involved in that.  For example, he really cares abt the food and music.  He also has been helping me with DIY projects so that i don't freak out which i appreciate.  

    He doesn't care at all about photo's (other then a few), so he has left those kinds of things up to me.  But i love it when he helps, so he does his best.  Its hard though since we are planning from a distance, so typically only i go to make arrangements b/c its cheaper on us that way. 
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  • OpiesladyOpieslady member
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    edited December 2011
    FI has been really helpful.  He's researched DJs, hotels, and tuxes.  He's also planning the honeymoon (with a little input from me).  Not to mention he's dealing with his mom, so I don't have to Wink  It's been really nice being able to rely on him.
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  • rknox88rknox88
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    edited December 2011
    My fiance does pretty much the bare minimum but says that he just wants to be married to be which makes me feel good. All the fluff isn't important to him he just wants to be my husband which is really the whole point. He is helpful if I ask but I do have to ask which is fine. I understand he would rather be reading a book than picking out linens and that is a-ok with me.
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  • maiyaemaiyae
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    edited December 2011
    My Fi has been very helpful and involved in lots of the decisions he is also really good at calming me down when I start to freak about things.  He's been to all but one of the vendor meetings and that was the florist - which is fine.  It's been really nice that he is involved and it helps me that I can talk to him about all the little things (which there are a lot of). 
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  • whitneykaye87whitneykaye87
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    edited December 2011
    DH was very involved, which was nice.  We each had different responsibilities and checked with the other before making any decisions (ie he did honeymoon and food, and I did decoration and flowers).  There were a few things that we did completely together like picking out a reception site.
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  • kelleyku05kelleyku05 member
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    edited December 2011

    For the most part my fiance just wants to know when to show up.  Occasionally he will put in his 2 cents or give an opinion when I beg for it, but overall he chooses to stay away from the planning.  He didn't go to any vendor meetings, and only went to see the venue when I dragged him their when my mom was in town.  I've gotten so used to that attitude that when he does say something it doesn't mean much, is that bad?


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  • kisabellkisabell
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    edited December 2011
    He only cares about the alcohol, food and music.  Everything else is pretty much up to me:) And I HATE planning things!!!
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