I'm a bridesmaid in my friend's wedding. She is getting married at the end of August, I'm getting married in the beginning of May.
She called me the other day to tell me she booked a restaurant for her shower for April.
My future mother in law was planning on booking my wedding shower for the same day. I had to call fmil and ask her to change the date, which wasn't a big problem as she had not paid a deposit yet.
I love my friend, and I wanted to be very involved in throwing her a nice shower with the other bridesmaids, but now that she has booked her own shower for less than a month prior to my own wedding, I'm feeling a little put off by that.
1. I'm going to be a little busy at that time, with my own wedding just a few weeks away -- I don't know that I'll have time to help with everything.
2. Money is tight! I'm not going to be able to contribute very much. By July or early August, I would have been able to contribute a lot more.
3. I don't know if she's expecting us bridesmaids to pay for this shower that she is planning, since, well, she is planning it. I don't know what to say when she's talking about the menu at this restaurant or the shower games & prizes.
Thoughts?