My FMIL is planning on hosting my shower for her friends and FI side of the family. Because my FSIL is 15 and cannot host the shower on her own. The concern is that in Indiana where we live the weather is bad in February- Late January which would be the ideal time to hold the shower. So is late October early November to early to have a shower? One of her other ideas is to have it after the wedding but I just don't like that idea at all I think it makes me look gift grabby!
So to summarize:
Should FMIL host shower in not so ideal weather?
Should the shower be in late October- early November?
Or is it kosher to the host it after the wedding?