We are having our wedding on December 22. We had originally planned with going with blue white and black.. I had seen the dendrbium (sp?) orichids... I LOVED the blue and purple... so fiance and I started to talk and wanted to add purple in. We had thought of going with black table clothes and chair covers.. a purple runner and blue/teal christmas balls in a vase with some bling on it. My mom thinks its too much and I should only add purple the trees and bouquets(flowers). We are doing spray painted white trees with lights everywhere and I had wanted to do blue and purple flood lights behind the head table as the decor and then the rest of the walls would just have blue flood lights... I am just so lost and mixed up now I have no idea what to do... Advice and opinion is greatly appreciated.