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  • What is more important to you?
    I'm sure she would understand if you decided to go on your honeymoon.

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  • Could you push your trip further out so you could still take the amount of time you wanted?  Or have you already made travel plans that you'd have to amend?  You could always go away for a night or two immediately following your wedding, then take your trip some time in the coming months when everything is more easily scheduled.
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  • Can you take your honeymoon later?  Like months later?  I'd probably want to go to my best friend's wedding.  We aren't going on our honeymoon until February and we got married in July.
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  • I would personally go to my honeymoon and not feel selfish about it, it is a once in a life time thing that is special between FI and I.  If you scheduled your wedding first, she would have known only a week later would run a conflict with you.

    Keep in mind, honeymoons are the norm in my area and are respected as the B&Gs private time to celebrate their love.  It isn't considered something selfish or an indulgence.
  • OP, why did you change screen names?
  • If it was me, I'd postpone my HM or cut it short by a couple days to go to my best friend's wedding.

    There isn't anything wrong with you missing it to go on your HM, but IMO her wedding isn't something that I would want to miss personally.

    Honeymoons are important I think, but I don't see it as all or nothing either. I don't think you're right or wrong either way.
  • Deleting posts is really immature.
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_friends-wedding-own-honeymoon?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:0474f0fd-eb98-4805-b0b4-081ecc2e1f6ePost:a643121f-ac1e-421f-9ec6-6b34bfd3afbf">Re: a</a>:
    [QUOTE]Deleting posts is really immature.
    Posted by kathrynhabibti[/QUOTE]
    Me thinks bff with a wedding a week afterwards also has a TK account.
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_etiquette_friends-wedding-own-honeymoon?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:9Discussion:0474f0fd-eb98-4805-b0b4-081ecc2e1f6ePost:99d5f495-6f2f-4653-a054-dda66d5e98b9">Re: a</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Re: a : Me thinks bff with a wedding a week afterwards also has a TK account.
    Posted by andy71781[/QUOTE]

    If this is the case and you're planning to delete, that's reasonable.  But please tell people up front so that they know you'll be deleting.  To do otherwise is really kind of rude.
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  • [QUOTE]In Response to Re: a : Me thinks bff with a wedding a week afterwards also has a TK account.
    Posted by andy71781[/QUOTE]
    Gotcha.
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