i have been feeling like I need a place to rant for awhile and I just stumbled upon this. I have been dreaming of my wedding for years. Even before I met my fiancé. I had it all set in my mind exactly how I wanted it to be; what I would look like, what my future husband would look like and overall how I wanted the day to go down. Now that I am in planning mode and realizing how expensive everything is, I feel like there is no way to have the "wedding of my dreams" without completely compromising it all.. I can't decide on a honeymoon because I feel like it is all too expensive, I can't decide if I want to make the wedding smaller than originally planned (which means cutting people out). I also can't decide if I should just run to city hall and forget the rest. If any of you brides out there have ny advice for me I would greatly appreciate it.