I talked to my two MOHs last night, over the phone to see how they were doing. We got to talking about the shower/b-party and I asked if all of the BMs were getting along and feeling good about everything. My two MOHs are young-ish (24/25), and they've never been in a wedding before let alone be a MOH.
Well they both, separately, told me that one BM (who has been in weddings and is married) is being kind of a control freak and has sort of shot down some of their ideas for the shower and they're feeling like they have no say in anything shower related. They really want to make sure that this doesn't happen with the b-party so I told them that I was so sorry and that they need to stick up for themselves and not let her walk all over them....but can I do anything else?!?
I'd love to tell BM to quit controlling everything, but then she'll know that the two MOHs talked to me about her....so I can't do that. I'm not sure if I can do anything but tell BM that MOH & MOH really want to take over the b-party plans and to just let them go with it!
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