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What did your fiance do for his Bachelor party?

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What did he do? Did you have any worries about his friends/where they were going/etc? Did you go out the same night? Did you both agree on what is acceptable or did you have to hash it out, lol? Share anything! Just interested in other's couples experiences :)
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    Sarah&Nick0530Sarah&Nick0530 member
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    My fiance is doing a duo Bach Party with a friend getting married close to us...they're going out to a friend's farm and shooting and 4-wheeling and dirt biking and watching scary movies projected on a sheet outside...and other assorted "guy" stuff. lol
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    bmd14bmd14 member
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    He went on a golf weekend with a few friends.  They just golfed, went to dinner and gambled a little at a local casino.
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    ~mRm~~mRm~
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    DH also kept it simple. He and his closest friends went golfing then for dinner and drinks.
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    dd36lyn36dd36lyn36 member
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    My FI is leaving for a road trip to New Orleans (we live in Cleveland, Ohio) this friday.  He will golf, gamble, get drunk, see strippers on bourbon street, and have a great time for 5 DAYS!  Its extreme, but he deserves it.  I have no worrys of cheating, more of drunk injuries or fights.  My brother is going and will be just a text away.  Glad he gets to do fun things like this still (he's 35).  I hope we stay this young and fun forever!Laughing 

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    jkenn0108jkenn0108
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    My FI is going to a Phillies game (we are from Philadelphia), and then going to a bunch of beer bars in the city.  He's not into the whole stripper thing. 
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    key721key721
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_wedding-recap-withdrawal_did-fiance-his-bachelor-party?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:12Discussion:ba7bed20-b2c4-46ff-b135-36a8bea260ebPost:21f595ce-f8e4-4b85-9bca-0315e4ceece4">Re: What did your fiance do for his Bachelor party?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Formula 1 racing, dinner and club in AC.  I don't care about the strip club thing, never have,  and my FI really isn't into it.  My brother is planning his Bach party the only thing that FI asked for was to NOT go to a strip club or rent a stripper. My brother is the same was so he was relived.  But it is his Bach party and he can do whatever he wants.  
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       I just had to comment, my FI loves. F1. Our daughter is actually named Kimi after driver Kimi Räikkönen. No, we are not die hard fanatic fans, we just really loved the name.
         Sounds like it was a good Bachelor party.
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    millejj1millejj1
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    DH headed to Savannah with the groomsmen. The Best Man had asked for guidelines on what was allowed and I said no drugs, no touching girls (I didn't care about the groomsmen), and no drunk driving.

    They ended up going barhopping down River St and passing out at the hotel.

    I agree that if you don't trust him during the bach party, you need to reassess the marriage!
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    JD807JD807 member
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    My DH went out with the groomsmen, a group of friends that he's been with since childhood. They dressed him in jeans and a white tux shirt and took him to a stretch of clubs. They had everyone that asked why he was 'dressed up' sign his shirt with a sharpie. There are some hilarious things on there, everything from 'good luck kid' to notes from each of his friends. They had a blast...then they came home and played guitar hero all night. We never really discussed what was being done...just sort of told each other what was going on and made sure we had a contact number of a friend in case something happened. Mine ended up being horrible. We went out, but the place we went to was horrible on service, the drinks took so long to come out that we lost our buzz before the 2nd one was even on the table, they overcharged us, were rude...etc. etc. I'm just happy that my DH had a good time at his =)

    I couldn't care less about the whole strip club thing, but my DH is not that into them, as a PP said. We also combined forces after the wedding as a bunch of groomsmen and bridesmaid stayed for a few days and we went to a theme park, up to D.C. for a day, and generally had a good time all together
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    bellebride116bellebride116
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    Neither of us did anything... I would have been fine if he went and did something with his groomsmen and he would have been fine if I did something with my bridesmaids, but no one in our bridal party threw any sort of party and we didn't either.

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    rlynn007rlynn007 member
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    Mine is going out tomorrow night.  His friends are taking him to a bar/resturant to go play pool.  He dosen't drink and I know that none of the people going will be responsible!...I have no worries.
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    ErikaandChris32009ErikaandChris32009 member
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    We both had our parties a week apart. Mine was first and his was the week before the wedding. The best man reserved the presidential suite at a great new orleans hotel in the quarter. They went to Boubon for about an hour and the rest of the night was spent inside the hotel room playing pool. They guys said they acted like kids inside that room haha. Obvioulsy they aren't used to luxury :)

    I knew his friends wouldn't plan anything wild. My husband is very laid back and low key. His idea of a good night is a pub just talking with friends and maybe drinking a beer. He isn't into large crowds.
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    JoeyOzJoeyOz member
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    He went bar hopping and to a strip club with all his friends.  They got a hotel room and walked everywhere.  He puked in a trash can at one point and tried to save a stripper from getting beat up (he thought - he was really drunk and didn't know what was going on, but sweet of him to try to save her!  lol).

    I'm glad he had fun!
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    tinydancer842tinydancer842
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    He's going to a shooting range, then Atlantic City for dinner, gambling & drinking lol. We aren't doing it the same weekend -- he is taking the BAR exam this summer so he has to do it early (we get married the weekend after the BAR exam!!). I am going to the beach & out to dinner/drinks with my girls in July a couple weeks before the wedding :)
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    FystybrideFystybride member
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    My husband went out with all of the other engineers from work Monday before the wedding.  Monday night is pretty tame, and they had a big project due the next day with customers on site, so I knew they wouldn't get too out of hand.  His boss came home with him, they dropped off our car and went off together.  They played pool for a couple of hours and then went to Hooters for dinner.  Everyone bought him a beer (so he had about ten) and he was a little tipsy when he came home....but not sloppy.  I was happy, he was happy and it was all good.  I was only concerned about the driving aspect, and with his boss driving (and staying sober) that was all taken care of.

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    bre_talleybre_talley member
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    he is going to have a party at a friends house, they will have be playing pool, and wii, silly stuff like that, he didn't want any strippers. i am having mine the same night, and i will be having a lingerie shower and then my closest friends and i are going to dinner. 
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    munkeybutz04munkeybutz04 member
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    My fi and i are getting married in Vegas in Sept. So instead of having everyone travel out there twice (were doing bach parties there too) were going out a few days before the wedding to party it up! were doing a joint dinner and splitting up for the night. my girls and i will probably go see the chipndales or something, and the boys will most definitely go to strip clubs and lose lots of money gambling. all in good fun!  im incahoots with his good freinds though to set them up with a stripper in their hotel room for an hour or so.  should be a nice gift to all of them!  im not worried about him at all (except for maybe broken bones or jail time..ha ha) and hope he has a great time!
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    stephm77stephm77 member
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    We are having ours the same weekend in two different cities. He is going out drinking... they may or may not end up a strip club, and I don't really care as long as the stripped doesn't touch him. He thinks its immature, but his best man (his brother) is still single and thinks strip clubs are awesome. I just told him he wouldn't be happy if he know some guys thing was inches from my face... he agreed.
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