I'm starting to regret our decision to wait two years. FI and I have been together for 2.5 years now but we have known for almost 1.5 years that we wanted to get married. I know that in the long run I'll appreciate it because if we got married in 2013 I'd have to plan during student teaching and then quite possibly wouldn't have a job after marriage. It's frustrating though because people who got engaged after we did are getting married before us. I keep getting questions about why we are waiting so long and then I get people who say we need to wait longer. I'm not changing our date I just needed to vent.