Hello ladies! I've come to your board seeking answers as I've heard you are a group of knowledgeable and helpful ladies, so I help you can help me out.
By the way, I searched for this topic on the board before posting so if it's an overdone repeat, I apologize.
FI is Catholic and I am Christian. Neither of us are very religious and I'd say FI is even less. I live in South America now and don't belong to a particular denomination or church here. Well actually I haven't been baptized in a specific church either, long story short is my family left a church we belonged to when it was time for me to be baptized and we haven't gone back to that one or any other since. However I have always considered myself to be of Christian faith and in fact there is a nice English speaking non-denominational church here that I've visited several times that I enjoy!
Anyway the point is our venue has a chapel and although it is now forbidden to marry outside of a public church, there are several local priests that do marry at venue chapels. But what I'm really worried about is am I allowed to be married in a Catholic church/ by a Catholic priest if I am not Catholic? I've always understood that non-Catholics cannot be married in Catholic churches or by their priests unless they convert and are baptized and have their first communion. Recently I heard different. A nun told me that's not true, and that she personally knows of various ceremonies in Catholic churches with one non-Catholic person. (bride or groom) hmmm.. now I'm really confused!
Next week I'm meeting with a priest that regularly marries at our venue to see what our options are and get definite answers. I'm just wondering if this is something that varies from churches and priests.. like marrying outside a public church or how many extras are allowed during the ceremony. I've thought about mixed ceremonies too but I've asked around and this seems to not be possible here so up until now it looks like that's not an option. I'd really appreciate any insight, really just to get some info before meeting with the priest. TIA!