At the bar yesterday my exSIL invited me to their NYE party. She didn't say anything about FI but said I will call you tomorrow And we will talk. Apparently she told my other friend, who told me of course, that until FI and my exH are at parties together she doesn't want her house to be the first time so maybe this summer things will be better.(they have summer parties all the time) It's probably her husband, exH's brother making that rule. FI and exH have only been at the same place at the same time on Thanksgiving Eve night at a bar and everything was fine.
I'm just gonna tell her that I'm sure she's knows I won't go without FI and hopefully in the future this changes cause I would hate to loose her as one of my bfs. Don't forget nobody knows FI and I are getting married in May so they don't realize this summer for all the parties he will be my husband so exHs brother and him will need to let it go.
~jenn~