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Sad news

My grandmother lived with my parents until March of this year when she went of to New Jersey to live with my aunt.  My grandmother celebrated her 90th birthday in May.

My aunt contacted us last night to tell us that "Grandma D" was in the hospital and they thought she had a heart attack.

It was confirmed this morning that she suffered a heart attack and that she required emergency surgery or she would only live for another few months.  She had the surgery this afternoon and my aunt was told that the bottom of her heart was useless and that her heart lost 20% of it function ability.

My aunt received a call tonight from the doctor who told her my grandmother did not look good and may not make it through the night.  She passed away at 9:05 this evening - my aunt was 1 mile from the hospital.

My grandmother lived through the Depression, worked as a court stenographer and as a legal secretary, married the love of her life and could debate politics with the best of them. 

I remember all the conversations we had about my wedding and how forward she was to being there to see me get married.  She found a dress she loved and could not wait.

I have gone through almost an entire box of tissues in about 1 hour. 

My brother, sister-in-law and their daughter were making their way to NJ this evening when Tracy (SIL) found out my grandmother passed.  She did not want to tell my brother while he was driving so she waited over an hour before telling him to pull over because she felt sick and told him. 

Sorry to go on and on, but I am alone right now and needed to "talk."  Thanks for listening.
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Re: Sad news

  • DramaGeekDramaGeek member
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    edited December 2011
    I am so sorry for your loss.  I lost my grandmother 17 months ago today.  It is so, so hard.  There are still bad days, but it does get easier.  I'll be praying for peace and comfort for your family.
  • edited December 2011
    Sorry to hear that.  I will pray for you and your family.  Sounds like she was an amazing woman.
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  • MelissaC315MelissaC315 member
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    edited December 2011
    It sounds like she was an amazing woman. I'm so sorry for your loss. I'll say a prayer for you and your family. I'm very close with my grandmother and can certainly understand how you must be feeling. If you need to talk/vent I'm here.
  • edited December 2011
    I am so sorry for your loss!! We are willing to listen if you need to talk more about it.
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    Thank you ladies.  I need to get up in 3 hours to get ready for work, but woke up and cannot get back to sleep.

    I loved my grandmother so much, but unfortunately rarely told her (we are not that type of family.  I feel so terribly guilty for not letting her know that I loved her.  She was the last of my grandparents to pass.  I know she is in a better place now and not in pain, but I am so selfish and want  her back. 

    My mother is quite emotional and feels guilty for not caring for her mother until the end.  My mother took my grandmother in several years ago when she was no longer able to care for herself.  My mother said that she knew her father would not have wanted her mother to be alone or put in a home. 

    It is sad to think that we have lost her.  My cousin's baby shower was earlier in the year and her photographer captured the most wonderful photograph of our grandmother.  My counsin and her husband are making copies for the family.

    Sorry to ramble on.  I was the oldest grandchild on both sides and have a great recollection of my time with 3 of my grandparents (my paternal grandmother passed away when I was 2).  I miss them all so much.

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  • edited December 2011
    so sorry for your loss!!

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  • SuMmErKuTiESuMmErKuTiE member
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    I'm sorry to hear about your grandma, definitely keeping you and your family in my prayers.
  • mrandmrsbristmrandmrsbrist member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm so sorry to hear this. :( Praying for you and your family.
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    I am so sorry ... You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers
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  • edited December 2011
    I am so sorry for your loss. I will keep your family in my prayers. I know how hard it is to lose a loved one. 
  • iamjoesgurliamjoesgurl member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm sorry to hear this.  I can imagine that your family is devastated by the sudden loss of your grandmother.  I'll be praying for you all.  **hugs**
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  • ravenrayravenray member
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    I am so sorry for your loss.  I will pray for you and your family.  *hugs*  Death is hard but know that someday you will see her again and you can tell her just how much you love her.  <3
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  • edited December 2011

    Ladies, your works or encouragement and prayer continue to warm my heart.  The calling hours and funeral have been set.  We leave for Danbury, CT on Tuesday.

    This is very difficult for us since these last few months were full of joy and anticipation.  My brother is getting married 2 weeks from today and I am getting married in a little over one month.  She will be missed.

    Thank you all again for your concern and encouragement.

    Carrie

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  • m&eguntonm&egunton member
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    edited December 2011
    Never apologize for coming to the Body of Christ to seek comfort, especially from ladies who are planning their own weddings.  May Christ keep you and your family close to Him during this time and know that, when you do get married your grandmother will be there as well.

    I lost the last of my gandparents in 2009 but I plan on having a memorial vase in which I shall have 4 roses, representing each grandparent and I'll have a thing in my program letting people know that, though they are unable to be here in the flesh they are here in spirit.

    I hope the Lord gives you comfort.
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