i'm so lucky that my fiance is a jeweler. I liked this ring but I wasn't sure how it would look w/ my ring since its a little different. Instead of paying $400 (wholesale) on a ring that wouldn't be returnable if I didn't like it, we spent $100 on a sterling silver w/ CZs ring. Well I definitely love it!! You can't even tell its fake. So I'll probably wear this one on the HM because I'd be afraid of losing the real one.