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February 2012 Weddings
futuremrscoachj
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And the freak-outs begin...
Im 35 days out and the nightmares, to-do lists in my head, everything is in full force. I made the huge mistake of watching the Four Weddings Marathon yesterday and it made me realize its crunch time! Ive gotten all the big things done but am freaking out about the details. AH! Anyone else feel like this?
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Re: And the freak-outs begin...
If you have all the big things done, you probably have all the important things done and the wedding will go on no matter what!
Good luck, have fun and enjoy this special time in your life!
I officially started to "FREAK OUT" yesterday when I realized that as of then there were 34 days left until the wedding and I only had 9 RSVP's I have emailed, fb, and texted everyone for there responses today. Also not completed is : Paying for the flowers, photographer, picking and paying for linens, and fine tuning all the little details. I dont think I would be prepared even if the wedding was a year away so Im trying to stay relaxed and get it done. Doesnt help though that my partime job that I may get 20 hours on every two weeks decided to give me on avg 28 hours per week this month. How on Earth will I fit this all in pray for me.
i finally found the one!
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[QUOTE]FutureMrs- we have tons to do, so i've been freaking out as well. Time seems to be going by so fast. My grandmother said last night "Now we can say you're wedding is next month" lol. Next month seems too close!
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I defintely didn't think about being able to say "the wedding is next month"...that is SO crazy!!!
nightmares - check!
Thank god for Valium!!
Things are fine now but Im worried the stress is really becoming a problem....
and yes, FI and I have been bickering about the stupidest stuff. I think its part my stress and part his realization that he's about to get the ol ball and chain.
One month from today!
[QUOTE]Nightmare last night: my bouquet was made of out pipecleaners and the bridemaids' bouquets' stems <strong>were small Coke bottles. DONT ASK...</strong>and yes, FI and I have been bickering about the stupidest stuff. I think its part my stress and part his realization that he's about to get the ol ball and chain. One month from today!
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Hilarious...I love it!!!! Im not having nightmares but Im sure thats because Im just not sleeping. Im waking up every night/morning at 3 or 3:30 am and am up until I get ready for work at 7 am. You would think I would take advantage of this free time and clean or work out but no such luck. I just lay there and my mind spins out of control. I should have the cleanest house on the block or be so thin and in shape!!!!
Im glad Im not the only one fighting....I have been feeling horrible. Im excited but Im also glad its coming to an end. I would like our lives to have some normalcy again.
I got a lot of stuff done early on, so now it's waiting for the things that we couldn't do, like waiting for the rest of the late RSVP's to come so that we can do the seating arrangements, and finish putting everything together! I think the realization that it's actually happening - soon, is putting a lot of pressure on us to make sure everything is perfect. Along with the fantastic family drama that seems to come with a wedding.
Ahhh the joys of being a bride.