I finally decided to stop being indecisive and bought these earrings for the big day.

Also, I ordered these hair pins from Etsy:

What do you all think? I was a little unsure that they would coordinate, since they are kind of different styles, but they both have pearls, so I figured it would be okay.
Now I just need to decide on a bracelet! I can't find one I like that would coordinate with the earrings. so, back to being indecisive...*sigh*