If you are looking for a great reception venue - try the Doubletree. They do all the work, the food is great, the rooms are fantastic and best of all the staff is so great to work with. Price was excellent!
Gen Lovin and his wife were our DJ's - the only word for them is FANTASTIC. They usually go to the bridal fairs. Be sure to meet them. He has a world class music catalog.
Graffe studios is a great florist. Husband and wife team. They will customize. Are very fun to work with. Also, budget friendly.