Hello all! I am gettin married July 3, and we are going to be sititng down with the priest and discussing out liturgy here in a couple weeks and we have a huge decision to make. We do not know if we want a full mass with the eucharist or if we just want to have the sacrament of marriage and the homily. I am currently going through RCIA so I will be fully Catholic by the time of the wedding, but my family is Lutheran. Most of the women in RCIA that are engaged are of course getting married in a Catholic Church but our leaving out the eucharist. My mom made it VERY clear that she would be extremely hurt if we had communion. She is not real happy that I am converting and that we are having a Catholic wedding to begin with. She doesn't agree with the fact that her and my whole family won't be able to recieve communion, but my fiance's will. She said it will just make her feel like she is not an important part of her own daughters wedding, and she is paying for the whole wedding. My fiance did understand this is the earlier wedding planning stages but is now really disapointed and wants communtion very badly. It is a no win because I will be upsetting one of them and can completely see where they are both coming from. I don't want to make my mom feel unimportant, but I dont want to tell my fiance he can't have communion....I need advice! : )