Just wanted to share. I read (then got my FI to read) Gary chapmans 5 love languages and I honestly think it cleared up some issues! I'm 100% acts of service and he's 100% physical touch and made us both realize some of what we are doing or not doing is subconsciously causing tension. I suggest it highly, and it's a quick read. Im getting into things I wish I knew before I was married.. I'll share about that one too