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North Carolina-Outer Banks

Vendor Review July 13 wedding

Back from our July 10-17 trip to Duck.  Wedding was awesome! The best choice we could have made for our daughter's wedding.  A lifelong dream fulfilled, really at a very affordable price when you take the vacation portion out of it. 
Wedding date:  Wed July 13- having on Wednesday allowed enough time for prewedding preparations and parties and still allowed enough time after to clean up and relax and enjoy the beach for a few days after.

We did not have a true wedding coordinator.  It was fun for me and my daughter to get it all together, although stressful at times.  Did have tons of help from our friends, so if you don't have this or don't want to bother your guests with it, a coordinator will be your best bet.  We could not have done it without the help of our friends- decorating beach andoutside area, helping with food, drinks, coolers etc.  But everyone really had a great time.

Venue:  Realtor- Paramount Destination
             House - Jewel of the Isle on Duck Landing Ln.
             Beautiful house,
             great venue meeting all our needs.  Housed the wedding party,
            Able to have welcoming pizza party, rehearsal dinner, and reception
            on the grounds. And a great room perfect for the bridal party to 
            get ready in comfortably.  Yard big enough for a 40x60 tent.  Allows
            125 guests (we had 120)
Rentals:  Used Metro Rentals- tent, chairs, linens,dance floor.  Very accomodating
             when needing to change numbers on tables and chairs.  It was very hot
             that day and the only time I have ever been to the beach with no breeze.
             Called them about fans for the tent and they had them there and up before
            we could make it back outside.  Also missing 2 tablecloths which were
            promptly delivered.
Appetizers:  Tommy's Market inDuck.  Peel and eat shrimp (which we had an
             abundance of), delicious crabcakes, veggie and cheese and fruit trays
             Lucinda at the market was very helpful in helping me decide on a menu
             and pricing was in line with other places for appetizers.  We did pickup
            and setup ourselves. 
Food:  High Cotton BarBQ. If you are looking for good, simple, abundant food
            for your dollar this is your place. For about $13 per person we had pulled
             pork, roasted chicken, mac and cheese, baked beans, coleslaw, plastic
            utensils and plates, napkins.  the food was delicious and everyone was
            happy.  This was for delivery and initial setup.  Little extra you can get full
            service along with tea and soft drinks.  Came recommended from other
             sites and was a good choice for us, and we had tons of left overs.
Flowers:  OBXweddingflowers.com  can find her on facebook.  She did a
            wonderful job at an affordable price.  Can check out some of her work on
            facebook. My daughters flowers are the latest sunflower bouquets
Wine/Beer:  The Wine Specialists on 158 in Kitty Hawk.  Competitive prices on
            kegs of beer, and a wide variety of wine which she offers a discount
            on if bought by the case.  Free delivery and use of tubs which is a big
            help.  Also can buy ice which they will deliver.
TheKnot store:  We bought a variety of items from the knot, all of good quality
            and if you watch for sales or clearance at very good prices,  Items
           purchased- cake and knife set, napkins, champagn flutes, monogrammed
           beach towels among some other things
Makeup, Hair, and cake were all done by family and friends. Adding to the
            specialness of the day
Photography:  Outer Banks Productions- have not seen the proofs yet,but
             can't wait to
Officiant- Last but certainly not least, was their officiant Rev. Jay Bowman
             I cannot say enough nice things about this man.  He definately enjoys
             what he is doing , marrying people on the beach of the place on earth.
             His personable ways, caring attitude, and passion for his work is evident
              in every look, every word,every action.  He truly believes in what he is
            doing.  And we were so very lucky to have found him. Would recommend
            him to anyone. He truly was the best find of this wedding and I hope at
            some point to witness another wedding he officiates. It was that special.

I wish all of you future OBX brides, just the magic we felt on the beach that day. It was a true dream come true.


Re: Vendor Review July 13 wedding

  • roseygbroseygb member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    Oh my gosh thanks for this detailed review! SO helpful!
  • mparwulskimparwulski member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    You just made me teary eyed.  I am getting married in 3 weeks with Rev. Jay.  I just spoke to him yesterday about my order of ceremony.  I've heard so many great things about him.  I can't wait.  Thanks for the nice review.  This always helps the future brides in planning.
  • edited December 2011
    awesome review~  I am so glad I picked Rev Jay as well.  I love the pics you posted. 
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  • edited December 2011
    That is gorgeous! Your daughter is so lucky to have you! May I ask.. what time of the day did you all decide on the wedding?
  • edited December 2011
    Does anyone have an email address or phone number for Jay Bowman?  I have emailed him several weeks ago with no response.  I'm wondering if he even got my email submission from his website.  It never gave me a confirmation...?
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  • edited December 2011

    He does take a while to respond Ive noticed. 

    jay@yourobxwedding.com
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  • tergitergi member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_north-carolina-outer-banks_vendor-review-july-13-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:598Discussion:82894bdd-2130-4ff0-b300-eaf31b3fb761Post:3e35cd23-681f-4c07-9228-72138103c3fa">Re: Vendor Review July 13 wedding</a>:
    [QUOTE]That is gorgeous! Your daughter is so lucky to have you! May I ask.. what time of the day did you all decide on the wedding?
    Posted by TeachLibrary[/QUOTE]

    The ceremony was a 6pm.Not too many people on the beach at this time.
  • mparwulskimparwulski member
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_north-carolina-outer-banks_vendor-review-july-13-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:598Discussion:82894bdd-2130-4ff0-b300-eaf31b3fb761Post:f5e8681e-c2a3-47e7-ae88-ac010b9d7609">Re: Vendor Review July 13 wedding</a>:
    [QUOTE]Does anyone have an email address or phone number for Jay Bowman?  I have emailed him several weeks ago with no response.  I'm wondering if he even got my email submission from his website.  It never gave me a confirmation...?
    Posted by keb2482[/QUOTE]

    I emailed too a couple of weeks ago without a response.  I called him and he got back to me within 30 minutes.  He has a Mac and I think some of his mail is going to junk because he never got my email.
  • edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_north-carolina-outer-banks_vendor-review-july-13-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:598Discussion:82894bdd-2130-4ff0-b300-eaf31b3fb761Post:f5e8681e-c2a3-47e7-ae88-ac010b9d7609">Re: Vendor Review July 13 wedding</a>:
    [QUOTE]Does anyone have an email address or phone number for Jay Bowman?  I have emailed him several weeks ago with no response.  I'm wondering if he even got my email submission from his website.  It never gave me a confirmation...?
    Posted by keb2482[/QUOTE]

    The first time I emailed him he got back to me within an hour. The second time I emailed him he got back to me within 30 min. This past time I haven't heard back from him yet and it's been about 4 days. Last time I emailed him, though, I think he said he might take a smidge longer to get in touch b/c he's so busy with wedding season.
  • tergitergi member
    10 Comments
    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/local-wedding-boards_north-carolina-outer-banks_vendor-review-july-13-wedding?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Local Wedding BoardsForum:598Discussion:82894bdd-2130-4ff0-b300-eaf31b3fb761Post:f5e8681e-c2a3-47e7-ae88-ac010b9d7609">Re: Vendor Review July 13 wedding</a>:
    [QUOTE]Does anyone have an email address or phone number for Jay Bowman?  I have emailed him several weeks ago with no response.  I'm wondering if he even got my email submission from his website.  It never gave me a confirmation...?
    Posted by keb2482[/QUOTE]

    Try his website:
    <a href="https://www.myouterbankswedding.com">https://www.myouterbankswedding.com</a>

    or his facebook page (lists his phone number)
    <a href="https://www.facebook.com/#!/revjaybowman">https://www.facebook.com/#!/revjaybowman</a>
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