Hey girls I need some etiquette/wording help with grandparents in the wedding programs. We have 1 grandmother who is alive and attending, several grandparents who are alive and not attending (including all of my grandparents who live in China and can't feasibly get on a 13 hour flight at their ages), and 2 deceased grandparents. I'm not sure of the proper way to list them in the program without causing confusion for the guests.
I was thinking of just listing the one grandmother the actual program part since she's part of the "seating of family", and having a separate section in the end with something like "The bride and groom wish to remember grandparents who could not be here or are no longer with us:" then listing grandparents who could not attend and those who have passed. Thoughts?
Thanks in advance for your input!