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Odd Question.. BM Gifts

duqcheer04duqcheer04
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I've been purchasing individualized gifts for all of my BMs in the $35-$40 range. 

I just purchased a half price gift certificate to a spa for one BM and it was $25 spent, but got me (her) $50 worth of services. 

Not that any of the other BMs are really going to say anything, but I feel like I should get her another small gift ($15 max). I would have spent the same on all of them, but it may appear that this particular BM got more.  I guess I don't want it to seem like I favored one BM over another?

What would you do? Buy said BM a small gift or just give her the GC? I'm sorry this is a silly/odd question!
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Re: Odd Question.. BM Gifts

  • jrsygrl10jrsygrl10 member
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    edited December 2011
    i would just give her the GC. she doesn't have to know that you got a discount on the GC. that's your benefit of being a savvy shopper! :)
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  • cgyvhucgyvhu member
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    edited December 2011
    Not an odd question at all!

    I agree with jrsy - It's not about what you spend on them, its about what you are giving them.  You are giving her something worth a lot ($50 GC) so you shouldnt feel obligated to spend more just so spending is equal!
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  • pantherRNpantherRN member
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    edited December 2011
    I agree with jrsy and md. Great question, I always wonder about the same thing.
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  • gmc22gmc22 member
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    edited December 2011
    I also agree with pp! Def not a silly qu!

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  • KimWardKimWard
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    edited December 2011
    Nice deal you got! I wouldn't worry about getting her something else.
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  • anne513anne513 member
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    edited December 2011
    I wouldn't worry about getting something else. She wont know how much you spent and neither will any other BM. That's an awesome gift though! I would love to get it.
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