I'm from Georgia- I went to school out of state at met my fiance in Illinois. We are finishing up our last year of college. While planning the wedding and when we get married, we are probably going to be student teaching/interning/working in the Chicago area.
My initial thought upon engagement was that the wedding would be in Illinois, because we would be there to plan it. Also, generally more people (his family and most of our friends) are in the state.
Upon further discussion, I learned that it is tradition to hold the wedding in the bride's hometown. Also, it seems that my family expects it to be in Georgia. My parents are probably paying for the wedding, but isn't it a problem for the bride to plan a wedding 600 miles away? I'd really like to be able to look for and plan things on my own if need be.
Does anyone have a similar problem? Insights?