I am planning two weddings for us.
Here is where my first freakout has begun. My dream has always been to get married on the same day as my Opa and Oma did. (I was very close to them and they have both since past) I have wanted this since...well...forever.
However that date is 5 days away (may 23)
I'd love to do the legal thing that day and then i guess my US wedding in aug and then the south african one we have planned in november.
Here's part two of said issue.
The rings we have being made at my work (since i work in jewelry) won't be ready by the 23rd and my fiancee insists on having the ring he marries in on for FOREVER after the first wedding.
I can't use my eng ring as my ring, because we haven't bought it yet. He really wants me to have a south african made ring.
I know he's being a little ring obsessed here but it is the one thing he insists on and has been letting this be all about me and since he is South African he really wants me to be wearing a ring from home.
There is NO way we are waiting a year so that option is immidiately is a no go.
so I'm torn between missing my dream day or getting super boring rings and not our coustm ones and convincing the fiance to do 3 weddings...