For not wanting to buy FI parents a gift. They have not been involved what so ever. They havent called and asked is there anything we need or nothing. I tried to involve his mom in the planning, going dress shopping, and she has showed no intrest. She hasnt even been looking for a dress to wear for herself. When I see her she doesnt ask how things are going..if I dont bring it up there is no confo about the wedding. So I feel like we shouldnt get them anything.