Here is my run down. My grandfather has been a part of my life since my mom died when I was 18 ( i am now 32). He was the only family member to take me in and basically was my father figure. He is also walking me down the isle. My real father came into my life August of 2011, i hadnt seen him since i was 9 years old. He is also helping to pay a small portion of the wedding. How can I involve both of them when it comes to the dance? Please help with any suggestions. I dont want any to feel less important than the other