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May 2012 Weddings

Bad mood!!

As the date gets closer, do any of you find that you are in a "crabby" kind of mood, what with everything to do, drama that might be happening or just feeling overwhelmed that makes you want to bite people's heads off?  :)  What do you find that helps you overcome it??

Re: Bad mood!!

  • Aww, yeah!  I was a total crab this past Saturday and for no reason at all.  FI and I were working on WR stuff and for some reason I was just kind of done with all of it.  It was terrible!  I think it's reasonable to assume the stress of the wedding and the drama that comes along with it, makes us all a little bitchy.  FI understood and just kind of blew me off.  Thank goodness.  The next day I was totally fine and WR stuff was tackled once again. 
    We have given ourselves one day a week of absolutely nothing wedding related talk, projects, anything.  That made a huge difference for us.  To just take one day and not think about it all, helps.  Plus we just try to focus on the FUN we're going to have!
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  • I have been feeling that way a bit lately. Just the fact that pretty much everything else that we have left to do is dependent on how many guests we have coming. I jsut want to have everything planned and we can't so it sucks. 

    We detox and calm oursleves down by playing Guild Wars. We are total videogame junkies so it's perfect. We're nerds, lol :) 

  • I have been feeling the same way except mine is mostly from NWR stress.

    We have been playing cards a lot lately. And just games in general.
  • I've been in the same boat, alot of mine is like mancila's though. NWR. Thankfully the bathroom remodel is almost finished and maybe I'll only be a bit%& about wedding stuff.

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    I was really anxious about my shower, and now that's over I feel much better! We have all of our vendors booked just need to finalize a few things and make some lists.

    The thing that is really pissing me of is FI's GM.... he can't afford to come to the wedding and we offered to pay... but he is taking forever at getting back to us about plans, then ticket prices went up and we could't afford to pay for him to come, then he says he may have frequent flyer miles... it's been back and forth, coming, not coming, and it's really pulling on our heart strings. We understand that he isn't able to make it we just wish he would make up his mind already!
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  • Yeah, I've felt that way.  FBIL's passing was another one of life's reminders to stop, relax, and focus on what really matters.  And I'm not talking about favors, missing guests, or sassy bridesmaids =]
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  • Oh yes!  My fiance has learned that if I happen to yell at him out of the blue it is because I'm stressed with the wedding.  It has been better since we have paid the remainder of amounts owed to all the vendors but a few which want to be paid later.  What is mainly stressing me is family drama and dealing with BOTH of our mothers.  Once I get one settled the other starts crap.  I can't wait for happily ever after!
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