I want a huge and elaborate wedding with 200-300 people in a hall. On the other hand, I would also love to get married in my lifelong church, where my parents got married and my grandparents renewed their vows on their 50th year anniversary. The church is small and not so beautiful. It's an older building and the area we would have our reception fits at most fifty people. It also has bulletins tacked to boards and children's art hanging in the area. I wouldn't feel so glamorous there. I need suggestions on how you would do both. I was thinking of the morning of my big wedding to do a ceremony in the church for just close family. And then do it at the hall for everyone. Or would that be too stressful or silly? Or having a small family wedding at the church and on our one year or five year have a big renewal. But I feel like it wouldn't be "special" since we've been married all along and people would basically just be having dinner while I wear a dress, haha. Any suggestions please! Thank you!!