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Starting to get soo nervous, and not in a good way!

LindzMarie19LindzMarie19
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So the day is 46 days away! (whoa!) I'm starting to get so nervous, nauseatingly nervous! I'm nervous about being the center of attention on the wedding day! like everyone standing up and watching you walk down the asle and everyone watching  you during the first dance! I know this is crazy and i've had well over a year to get over this, but its getting closer and closer and i'm getting more and more stage fright!!! FI is not nervous at all, he told me just to block everyone out, but i can't do that!

I'm also getting nervous, because i'm getting ALOT of RSVPs back. this is a good thing, but way more people are coming than i thought. I"m happy about that, but it def adds to my stage fright and me and FI are starting to think we might should have narrowed the guest list a little, OH well! lol   Anybody else starting to get stage fright?
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  • Shelly527INShelly527IN
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    YES!!! I hate being the center of attention.
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  • futuremrsbecerrafuturemrsbecerra
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    I like being the center of attention when it comes to my direct family but with people that i'm not comfortable or the environment i'm not comfortable with I HATE being the center of attention. I'm prob. going to start feeling that way once it gets closer. I'm 32 days out and i just haven't really felt like its coming so i haven't been nervous but i know (especially the week of or maybe at the rehearsal) i will get very nervous.
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  • peachykeen26peachykeen26 member
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    No. And, it is totally a lot easier to block everyone else out.
    Just look straight on to FI. It will be a lot easier than you think.
    Take a deep breath and try to relax.

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  • MMCBRIDE4MMCBRIDE4
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    I will be looking ay my FH and I don't think that I'll notice too much that everyone is watching. Try to think of it like that :) I'm still nervous though
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  • jfellows82jfellows82
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    I also hate being the center of attention.  I think when the time comes, though, I'll just be so happy that everything else will melt away.  It also helps that we'll be facing away from everyone for most of the ceremony :)
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  • Shelly527INShelly527IN
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    I'm afraid I'll trip over my dress!
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  • brittneyh4brittneyh4
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    I'm having a major freak out moment the past two days. I cried my eyes out yesterday because FI wouldn't go to a food tasting party with me, haha! He thought I was insane and went with me anyway, but too many things stressed me out and this was the ideal straw/camels back moment. 

    I'm seriously sick over being in front of all those people. I'm not okay with it.. ick.
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  • LoveYouBLoveYouB member
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    I feel the same way! "Nauseatingly nervous" is right on point! I feel like I just wnat to get through the ceremony being in front of everyone and then I'll be ok... Im so nervous Im going to like start studdering my vows! :/
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  • precamiesprecamies
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    we have the same wedding date! I'm getting nervous too. but mostly about the food. the good news is that I will not be working for the 3 weeks preceding the wedding. the scary news is that FFIL and I will be making all the food for our dessert reception. which frankly is starting to scare the cr@p out of me. I'm a pretty experienced self-taught baker and FFIL used to work as a professional baker. But I'm scared that something will go wrong or that the food will not turn out right and I'll have to pull some trick out of my butt to make it happen. compared to that,  nothing else worries me much.
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  • ryaneannryaneann
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    I wish I could walk through the side door of the church to the altar jus tlike FI and GM's will bc I do not want to walk down the aisle!  LOL
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  • mricher1983mricher1983 member
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    I'm feeling the same way. I'm not stressing about the wedding, just very nervous.
    When I had my bridal shower, I think I was having an anxiety attack! And that's way less people then who'll be attending the wedding.
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  • SoonToBeMrsAmatoSoonToBeMrsAmato
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    I'm having a small wedding (only 70 guests) and they're all best friends and family so i'm not too scared of the attention but i'm ridiculously clumsy and could see myself faceplant down the aisle.. now that makes me nervous.
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  • michelletobinmichelletobin
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    I am nevous too, but more about everything going well then myself so much. My FFIL is doing our ceremony so I am nervous about that because I don't know what he will say. I emailed him some traditional vows that I want for the main focus, but I worry what all he has in mind. He is a former English Professor (retired) so I know he can talk but he tends to be somewhat sinical at times. he is excited though so i'm sure it will be fine.

    it will be fine, it will be fine, it will be fine.  Gotta just keep telling myself that! LOL
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    I'm a bit worried about messing up my vows but if I do and need to say a few words over I'm also thinking whatever, it happens. 
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