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June 2013 Weddings

More family BS

Well, my mother and grandma are STILL not talking to each other. This is a record for them. I have spent the last week listening to them bitxh about one another and it's making me mental.
I am now stuck at my grandmas house for dinner, and shes giving me the silent treatment. She started tearing into me because she thinks my fianc and him alone should pay for the entire wedding. When she found out that I was also paying she flipped! I couldn't take it, so I told her to keep her nose out of our financial situation. No one has offered to help us pay for the wedding, and we don't expect any help either.
I just cant believe how my family is treating this. My dad blamed me this morning for the fact that my mother and her mother were not talking. My mother does nothing but belittle me and my fianc, and my grandmother is just overreacting to everything.
I don't even discuss wedding plans with these people and it's killing me.
Thanks again for letting me vent.
I have no idea what to do anymore. I also apploogize for any spelling errors, I am posting this from my iPhone while my grandmother is stopping around in the other room.
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Re: More family BS

  • I'm so sorry about this!  If it were me, I'd just stay away from all of them, until they can act like grown ups.  My mom was being a total wackadoodle for a while, so I just stopped trying.  I would respond to emails with quick, short responses, and she never calls, so that was easy.   I am way more relaxed now.  Good luck!
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  • I second what Megan said!!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2013-weddings_more-family-drama?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding Club BoardsForum:f30b0bfc-508d-415c-bf59-ab83e327da37Discussion:dbcaf5ce-51bc-49e7-8988-6b764d213159Post:2e97b74d-c307-43f9-8f17-49b20103460c">Re: More family BS</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm so sorry about this! <strong> If it were me, I'd just stay away from all of them, until they can act like grown ups.</strong>  My mom was being a total wackadoodle for a while, so I just stopped trying.  I would respond to emails with quick, short responses, and she never calls, so that was easy.   I am way more relaxed now.  Good luck!
    Posted by Meghannsix[/QUOTE]

    Ditto on the bold part! And I'm also sorry about your situation, hope they come around soon!
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