My fiance and I are in agreement that we want a secular, semi-casual weekend affair, spending the time with our closest friends and family outdoors at a rustic mountain resort, complete with bonfires and pig roasting. However, we can't seem to get on the same page in regard to the ceremony. He is happy going to City Hall, and doesn't see himself standing in front of a group of friends and family saying vows. However, I want to wear the dress, walk down an aisle, and have my best friends stand by me, while we say our vows to each other. How can I compromise? Does anyone have suggestions to merge our two visions for the ceremony?