Hi - My maid of honor will be attending my wedding in the summer from out of state. I also will be joining her from out of state. So it will be like a destination wedding but where I grew up. My question is is it my responsbility to pay for her accommodations at the hotel we are both staying at or help her cut down her accommodation costs? I sent out an email about blocking some rooms at a reasonably priced rate at the Hilton and she wrote back that she wants to know if she can share the cost of her room with someone that night. Because she is attending the rehearsal dinner she wants to know if someone will split the cost with her that night. The following night she will split it with 2 other friends. I'm a little upset about this because she's expecting me to take care of her, like pick her up since she won't have a car. I'm having a dilemma as not only do my fiance and I have to pay for our own rooms but we have to pay for his family's accommodations. What's the best way to handle this situation? What should I tell her? I feel like if I try to help her, then I only make myself miserable. When I was bridesmaids at my friend's weddings, I always rented my own car, paid for my own hotel rooms, etc. Why can't she suck it up and pay for her room for one night?