I am planning my wedding for summer of 2011. I can't figure out the place for my ceremony or reception. I am cancelling my plans of a Mexico private reception in order to have my family there. I am looking for a rental house that is near the beach....on it would be ideal. It should be spacious and have a pool and able to host a small reception. I do not like there rules of hotels or the scene. I would love it if I were able to set a few tables and chairs out by the pool and host a small cocktail reception. I would need rentals, caterer and maybe a DJ. I do not know where to start can someone please help me? I have a small budget of 4-5000 for accommodations, rentals and food and i am starting to think this was a bad idea.