What would i do for bachelorette party?!

Re: What would i do for bachelorette party?!

• EK2013 member

  

  June 2012

  In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_pre-wedding-parties_what-would-i-do-for-bachelorette-party?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:32Discussion:cff14e64-90e0-4b07-9d77-7b9921d8ee60Post:e4a67557-0157-40f9-b4ac-18db694eaafb">What would i do for bachelorette party?!</a>:
  [QUOTE]Okay so I really want to still be able to have the fun bachelorette party that is always shown in the movies. But there a few problems. 1. Because I am a younger bride I will not be 21 before my wedding so I cant drink (and I have never drank) 2. My MOH is younger than me so again with the drinking. 3. I am only having my MOH and 1 bridesmaid who is my little cousin who is like a sister to me and she will only be 15 at the time of our wedding. So what are things we would even be able to do for a bachelorette party?!
  Posted by vbandell[/QUOTE]
  
  <div><ul><li>Fancy tea party</li><li>Theme park</li><li>One-off for-fun class (like a cooking class)</li><li>Spa day</li><li>Museum day, followed by fancy restaurant</li><li>"Formal" bowling--bowling in prom-type dresses</li></ul><div>... What do you like to do? Do you have hobbies you share? Things you wanted to do anyway?</div></div>

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• Summer2011Bride member

  

  June 2012

  Did one of them or another friend offer to throw you a bachelorette party? You can't throw it for yourself.
  
  If they did, then PP had some good suggestions. You could always spend the night at someone's house and eat junk food, watch movies, etc. I think a spa day would be fun as well.

  
  
  
  
  

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• willywally5 member

  

  June 2012

  I concur with previous posters ... any of those ideas would be fun. Also, you aren't supposed to throw yourself a BP.  

  
  

  An afternoon of pampering (like mani/pedi or whatever you like) and then dinner followed by a good old slumber party would be a ton of fun! A fun night with your girlfriends doesn't have to involve any drinking if that isn't your thing ... movies and media just like to make you think the opposite! LOL

  
  

  Good luck with whatever your girls decide to do for you ... 

  

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• calliopeia2013 member

  

  June 2012

  Well, what do you and your friends do for fun normally?
  
  I mean really, most people don't have drunken raves for their bachelorette parties like you see in the movies.  If you're not the sort of person who's into that normally, it's really, really not very fun anyway.
  
  Some things you could do:
  
  - Go to a spa
  - Go get dinner and see a show
  - Have a girl's night in- rent movies, eat popcorn, do at-home spa treatments, generally chill.
  
  Also, if you're really into the going out movie-style b-party idea, many places do have under-21 clubs that don't serve alcohol and you can go dancing.  But I'm pretty sure you have to be over 18, so your little cousin might be left out.

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• vbandell member

  

  June 2012

  Thank you. I know i wouldnt be having one for myself. But I just couldnt really think of anything that we could even do.

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• VJones1981 member

  

  June 2012

  My MOH asked for suggestions for my bachelorette party. I told her that I would love for us to all go to a baseball game and then have a girl's night out, or an old school slumber party either at someone's house or at a nice hotel. As long as everyone has a good time, it doesn't matter what she plans.

  

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