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Just for LOL's!!! NWR

How many of you within the year or more of your engagement have called it off (between you and your FI) because of a little spat and called it back on again LMBO....i can tell you within the last 3 mnths its been called of 3 times lol....HE JUST GETS ON MY NERVES lol...but i love him truly...

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Re: Just for LOL's!!! NWR

  • Lol so guilty of this
  • HardyLove222HardyLove222 member
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    edited July 2012
    **GUILTY** I did it once since he proposed in April lol and every now and then when he really pisses me off I threaten him.
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  • LMBO....this last time which was night before last he called hisself getting upset over something silly so he threatened me and me being the woman i am....i was like cool its off them im good and i dont care lol...well we have been discussing our issue and this morning im like sooo are we or are we not doing this wedding thing lol....im just as bi-polar as him lol

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  • Raises both hands but The Dude doesn't know it!!  LOL!   I had to "woosah" my way out of opening my mouth.  He must pick up on it because he always manages to get his act together and make me fall in love with him again.  :)



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  • Well my FI knows because i dont hesitate to let him knw lol

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  • i've done this so many times that i dont know if we "on" or "off" right now lol. poor guy. he's gotten used to it now but the first 10 times he was crying. He said shyt hits the fan 7 days out the month.
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  • We only called it off once, but it was a pretty big deal. Thankfully, we pulled it together.
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  • Lol, ladies! I forgot to add that he had the nervvveee to call me....*drumroll* Bridezilla! Just because I wanted to confirm that he is good with the damn date! lol
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  • girl it happens I only been engaged for 2 weeks this passed weekend and I called it off 3 days after he propsed and threw my ring in the dumpster of some random place ugh! crazy but he pissed me off and i'm truly bi-polar and PTSD lol! I told his ass we been off and on for 4yrs if he don't know now HE GO LEARN TODAY! LOL! needless to say he knew I would do something like that thank god he had the ring insured and I should be getting it at the end of the week but he did learn and he upped the wedding date and is helping more LOL! yes i go to the extreme lol!
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    [QUOTE]girl it happens I only been engaged for 2 weeks this passed weekend and I called it off 3 days after he propsed and threw my ring in the dumpster of some random place ugh! crazy but he pissed me off and i'm truly bi-polar and PTSD lol! <strong>I told his ass we been off and on for 4yrs if he don't know now HE GO LEARN TODAY! </strong>LOL! needless to say he knew I would do something like that thank god he had the ring insured and I should be getting it at the end of the week but he did learn and he upped the wedding date and is helping more LOL! yes i go to the extreme lol!
    Posted by essienakya33[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>Girl you too funny......i told him within the next 2 years he might as well get used to hearing me say its off and then its on lol....

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    [QUOTE]girl it happens I only been engaged for 2 weeks this passed weekend and I called it off 3 days after he propsed and<strong> threw my ring in the dumpster of some random place</strong> ugh! crazy but he pissed me off and i'm truly bi-polar and PTSD lol! I told his ass we been off and on for 4yrs if he don't know now HE GO LEARN TODAY! LOL! needless to say he knew I would do something like that thank god he had the ring insured and I should be getting it at the end of the week but he did learn and he upped the wedding date and is helping more LOL! yes i go to the extreme lol!
    Posted by essienakya33[/QUOTE]

    Hey date twin! You threw your ring in the dumpster?? Wow, you must've been real pissed.
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  • @misstira yes he should LOL! but he should know how i am and he still be trying me but the love keeps it together.

    @my date twin its along story but yes he really pissed me off 
  • Never a real "call off" but Ihave said on many occasion "Well MAYBE we shouldnt be getting married if......."
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    [QUOTE]Never a real "call off" but <strong>Ihave said on many occasion "Well MAYBE we shouldnt be getting married if......."</strong>
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    <div>Guilty of saying this too especially after he first proposed and ran down the list of what i really wanted to do smh...all he heard was the cash register going off $-cha ching $-cha ching $-cha ching lol</div>

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  • I called the wedding off once but after a few weeks we pulled it together and had a long heart to heart. For us it was the stress of the wedding and moving in together that kinda kick our butts due to alot of adjustments, but here we are 17 days till we marry and I couldn't be happier. I think it happens to alot of couple because saying I do is such a big deal that you start to over analyze every little thing.
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  • Yeah I've done it and gave him the ring back shortly after we got engaged. He told me if I EVER take it off again that I will not get it back...Well damn! So I only did that one other time but I pulled myself together before he found the ring along with my little break up note. LOL But on other occasions I have threatened to call it off without taking the ring off.

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  • happe2getherhappe2gether member
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    Oh yeah!! We have had some serious "fights " since getting engaged about 2 years ago and I knew we had a long time to wait. Some hurtful things were said and I think I've only given the ring back to him once. But the funniest time was when we moved last year to a new place. A lot was going on that day and I had an appointment. Well I left the money for him to pay the moving guys but the bill came up to more than my quote. So he got pissed cuz he felt embarrassed - even though an ATM is right around the corner. His crazy behind started texting me up a storm. I couldn't respond right then. BUT when I got back into my car - giiirl I cussed him clean out! And I told him it would be a cold day in Hell before I put up with his ish like that. Got home and I didn't even speak to him but he kept hugging me and not letting me go. He ended up telling me he really knew we would be together forever because I finally had cussed him out. Ain't that some crazy ish? So yeah been there done that
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    [QUOTE]Lol, ladies! I forgot to add that he had the nervvveee to call me....*drumroll* Bridezilla! Just because I wanted to confirm that he is good with the damn date! lol
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    Off topic.. Hey date twin.. <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" />
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  • raises hands... But i've done it and he didn't know. I would mumble little shh in my head or if he leave put the ring on the dresser, etc. I've never actually told him that.. But have came very close.. These men are a trip.. LOL.

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  • Omg I needed to read this. I called off our wedding yesterday and gave him back the ring. I stressed and scared about everything. We're going to another counseling session on Saturday.
  • Im guilty! LOL!

    Welll...it was more like "are we sure we wanna do this?"

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  • I called it off (and he agreed) for 2 months or so at the beginning. There were too many things going on at the time of our engagement. Plus, I felt his motive was wrong for proposing in the first place. But we took some time and are in a better place now. 
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    [QUOTE]Omg I needed to read this. I called off our wedding yesterday and gave him back the ring. I stressed and scared about everything. We're going to another counseling session on Saturday.
    Posted by MrsHoward2Be[/QUOTE]<div>
    </div><div>God is good. Maybe you were mealt to read this. I hope everything works out for you both.

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    [QUOTE]Omg I needed to read this. I called off our wedding yesterday and gave him back the ring. I stressed and scared about everything. We're going to another counseling session on Saturday.
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  • I knw one dang thing these men are plum crazy sumtimes lol...but we love them which is why we are on this blog in the beginning...

    But i did tell him for the next 700 and some odd days we aint going thru this bull lol...


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