I agree about the chaos posts! We're getting married two weeks from tmrw and there is so much to do! Fortunately, I'm a teacher and am off on Christmas break starting TODAY! One thing that has helped me is to take a piece of copy paper and fold it lengthwise. I've written the days of this week spaces out down the left column and times of appointmentspastor, wedding coordinator, doctor, vet, etc., those were the nonnegotiable ones. On the right side I started listing things that have to be done or calls that have to be made this week. I'm crossing them off as I do them and sometimes moving something from the right hand column to the left if I see there is a particularly good day to do it. The list is full!!! I also have a paper going for the following week Christmas and our New Year's Day wedding, but it isn't so bad YET! Maybe this will help someone. By the wayI chose the things to do from the right hand list according to what has to be done by the end of today or tmrwnot by what I want to do the most. For example, I just finished filling out all the medical forms for a meeting with a surgeon tmrw because they have to be done, rather than working on the menu and shopping list for Christmas, which I'd rather do, but can wait.