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bridesmaid is bailing and not telling me lol

so the BM (BM #1) i THOUGHT was going to back out is going full force....the other one is the problem!! The two of them are friends and have a mutual friend who is a male. The one i thought wouldnt back out has been "dating" if thats what you want to call it, the male friend.

Well the male friend aint s*it. and BM #1 told BM#2 in a round a bout way to leave this sucka alone. but she is hypnotized by his you know....hehehe. so BM #2 called BM#1 trying to pump her for info on what the male is doing and BM#1 halfway told her. it wasnt what BM#2 wanted to hear and she kept justifying what this dude is out here doing. apparently BM#2 is mad and isnt responding to #1, and only answered her phone when #1 called her from a number she didnt know. #1 text her yesterday and said that we are going on the 11th for the dresses and is she still in or coming and she STILL didnt respond.

#2 talked to myself and FI via text last week and she said she was still in, but that was the first time we had heard from her in awhile! 

Pretty much, im pretty sure she is not going to be in the wedding. i told her some months back that the male friend cant come (we dont get along, i dont like his @ss)....and she is so far up his butt shes gunna be all like"he if cant go i cant go" and i just DONT CARE, like i told my sister and BM..."i just wanna get married" 

Re: bridesmaid is bailing and not telling me lol

  • Some people dont like to hear the truth... SHOOT the messenger.. you know..

    @ ...before her friends.. (granted we all can understand).. it may be best that she doesn't come..if that is how she is going to feel and act..

    there are some things that people cant just take for face value... they have to learn the lesson on their own..

    Sooo sad but true.. Sorry you're going through this.. BUT I am happy that you have the attitude of "can I just please get married and leave all the drama at the door"... Smile
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  • girl i just dont have time for drama. Im too laid back...when i see drama, i just throw my hands up. people are going to do what they want, they arent gunna stress me out by doin it!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_african-american-weddings_bridesmaid-is-bailing-and-not-telling-me-lol?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:400Discussion:4cafe0dd-bd70-411a-b09c-8559a714e87ePost:bd6dce8f-f2d0-4dac-916d-becbbbdb043b">Re: bridesmaid is bailing and not telling me lol</a>:
    [QUOTE]girl i just dont have time for drama. Im too laid back...when i see drama,<strong> i just throw my hands up. people are going to do what they want</strong>, they arent gunna stress me out by doin it!
    Posted by soontobehasrouni[/QUOTE]

    I LOVE THE ATTITUDE!!!
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  • Yes! I love ya attitude too! You got the right mind frame, at the end of the day you just wanna be marriedd to the love of ya life!
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