Should I just,....

adrielegorburu · February 2010

Do his wedding stuff for him? He still hasnt done a single groom thing..... tuxes, GM gifts, hotel rooms, nothing.....I tell him all the time that he has to do these things ASAP! I'm starting to worry and get naggy

Or - leave it alone and let his grooms hate him when they have to buy a suit since they will all be rented and they dont get anything as a gift or whatever.... Hotel rooms I might have to do.... I cant have our families all crash on the couch of our imaginary house.......

FutureMrsFezz · February 2010

If you want stuff done right do it yourself... that's what I told myself through our engagement.

atizon · February 2010

I would handle it yourself. If not it will not get done. FI is the same way.. gggrr!!! They think a wedding is just get dress and show up at the alter. lol
I am sure FI will be grateful that you did it.

MIABRIDENTAMPA · February 2010

I agree with Fezz. I tell him I want him to do stuff, in actuality I want to find it and just have him call and pay for it himself, so he can feel like he actually did something.

RU3234 · February 2010

Lol for tuxes, I told fi we were going to dinner then took him to MW. Lol he wasnt happy but it got done.
As for gifts and hotel, I did that all myself. I showed him the GM gifts when they came in and he was like cool..lol..guys will never get it done right!

sugadumplin18 · February 2010

I feel your pain. My FI has been a total slacker in the entire wedding process, which has led to some arguments. I kind of just bit the bullet and did most of the leg work myself. He is however, emailing the groomsmen the tux info, lol!

adrielegorburu · February 2010

I'm so glad it's not just me.....

twinkle82576 · February 2010

I don't even bother asking FI to do anything. I know he won't. I'd rather do it myself anyway.

millenia98 · February 2010

Just do what you can yourself, like the ladies said

heathermckelvey · February 2010

Don't stress about the tuxes, you have plenty of time. My FI is just now going to get his with his GM. If you're going to Men's Wearhouse or somewhere similar it's OK.

The other stuff, you still have time... but I would be frustrated also! In fact, I am because my FI still needs to take care of those things as well...

sambrefe67 · February 2010

ill totally end up doing it all...I showed him soemthing I wanted o thats nice was his reply...it came in and what the helled you buy that for...thanks for paying attention! LOL and court is 100% right..you want it done right do it yourself!!!!!

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