So we had our wrap up meeting at the venue and I have wanted black table clothes and found out that they are available. The wedding planning lady basically said they look bad. So here are two pics, 1 with black table cloth, 1 with white table cloth (not my venue, just inspiration pics). We are having black and white damask table runners. The napkins will be opposite color of what we choose for the table linen.
white table:

Black table (our actual runner and set up)

Our venue is Carlson Towers-Rotunda, we will have silver chivary chairs (sp?).