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Too many brides in my wedding!!!

pascalel485pascalel485 member
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I have a big family, and family is a light word, it's more of a clan or herd!
I have 3 sisters, my mother, many aunts and cousin and on my fiancé's side is not smaller. We have been engaged and planning the wedding for the last month and a half. The wedding is in August 2013 and right now I have: my dress, my fiancé's tux, the ceremony place, the reception venue, the officiant, the menu is decided...

so i am planning and things are getting done... but now it is at a halt since i am in University and I need time to study!

But now i am having problem with the people around me, people keep giving me advices that I didn't ask, they keep telling what they would do for MY wedding! I am goind crazy. I even received a e-mail from one of my sister telling how horrible I am to not have invited her to my dress trying. My aunt did the same thing and now they are bullying my mother about that.

I want to organize my wedding by myself and if I need help, I will ask... I am getting so sick and tired of selfish people who want me to do what they want... 

I need a way to tell them I don't want advices and that I will ask if I need any....  
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Re: Too many brides in my wedding!!!

  • courtski2004courtski2004 member
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    Since you are at a lull, just politely tell them that you are taking a break from wedding planning to focus on your coursework. Thank them for their interest, but be firm in telling them that you need to stay on track with school for right now. Let them know that the plans are under control, and that when you resume and need help with anything you'll be sure to ask them then.
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  • HobokensFuryHobokensFury member
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    Ignore them.  Everyone will have an opinion of what your wedding day should be like. The one 2 that matter are yours and you FI's. (With the only exceptions being who ever is paying)
     
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  • achiduckachiduck member
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    WIth another 10 months ahead of you, be prepared for a lot of "advice."

    Change the subject or just let it go in one in ear and out the other.
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  • Beads921Beads921 member
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    My advice to you: Advices isn't a word. It's just advice - no 's'.

    PPs have given you good suggestions though - say thanks, then bean dip if they keep pushing.
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