My father and my future father in law don't get along. They are civil when everyone is around, but I would be afraid what would happen if they were alone. I'm a daddy's girl. Have been my whole life. I also love my future father in law.. so...what do I do?
He stole my heart, so I'm stealing his last name.
Re: Not my mother in law..more like my father in law.
Whatever you do, do not get yourself in the middle.
Do not worry about making them into friends or think that you have to truly merge the families. They will probably have very little contact after your wedding and that is ok.